Ask Amy: The bride hurt my emotions. May I skip her wedding?

Plus: I would like to wear my stunning gown for their wedding, but will they think it is tacky?

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DEAR AMY: We have friend from twelfth grade. We invested our whole university job as roommates. Throughout university we considered her become my sis and then we became very near. I might often invite her out once I had been heading out along with other buddies, and she has received a few dishes at my moms and dads’ house.

Columnist Amy Dickinson (Bill Hogan/Chicago Tribune)

After university we expanded aside and also the interaction lessened.

I indicated times that are several her that I wish to talk more regularly, but she brushed it well and even said, “That’s life as a grown-up. I don’t actually talk to anybody anymore. ”

This friend’s wedding is coming in June and she would not ask me personally become described as a bridesmaid. I felt harmed and mad about that, but respect her option.

I will be torn about going to the marriage. She had been a tremendously friend that is close one point and I also honor that time we’d together, but our company is maybe not near like we was once and going to the wedding may just harm my feelings more. In addition, it really is a wedding that is out-of-state the price of going to is more than i would really like to invest. Read the rest of this entry